The ‘crude marriage rate’ [the number of marriages per 1000 of the estimated population] for 2019 was at its’ lowest ever point at 4.5. The number of marriages occurring in 2019 being 113,815. Provisional data for 2020 show the effect of the situation we live in with only 37,813 marriages occurring between January and June and were registered by the end of August – the 6 month’s average for the last 5 years being 55,492.
Over the decades the percentage of marriages performed by a “Minister of Religion” has fallen to just 19.7%
Evidently the reason given by some for being married by a “Civil Celebrant” is the freedom to personalise the ceremony, write one’s own vows and ditching traditions that they find meaningless or sexist.
Whilst there is little difference between de facto and marriage there has been the great rise of de facto relationships/co-habitation before marriage from around 16% in 1970 and 56% in 1992 to 81.3% in 2019 [latest available from ABS]
This landscape creates massive challenges for those of us who champion the value of marriage, God’s design of marriage that is. It would seem unlikely that a return in popularity of getting married will come through legislation or messaging/promotion but more likely will come through communities, particularly our communities – the Church model marriage and as with salvation people will say that what I need, that’s what I want help me get there!
In this crazy world, spending quality time at the dinner table as a family has become a forgotten pastime. The secret to making dinner time quality time is the conversation and paying attention. Put a ban all things digital. Turn off the TV. Eat together and watch your family grow closer.
Dr Gary Chapman
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”